Legal Separation Without a Lawyer

By Renee Booker - Updated March 17, 2017
Woman considering a legal separation.

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Many states allow married couples that wish to live apart as separate entities the option of filing for a legal separation instead of a divorce. If you do not wish to hire an attorney, it is possible to file for legal separation yourself. The key difference between a legal separation and a divorce is that when legally separated, you are still married. However, there will be an agreement that defines the division of assets and other financial matters if you choose to live separately from your spouse. Couples often choose a legal separation instead of a divorce for religious, moral or financial reasons, or as a trial period before deciding to file for a divorce.

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Why Choose Legal Separation Over Divorce?

In most states, a legal separation accomplishes the same thing as a divorce with one major difference. At the end of a legal separation, the couple is still legally married and may not remarry. Generally, a legal separation can settle issues regarding child support, child custody and visitation, alimony, division of property, debt and assets. At the end of a legal separation, the parties will essentially be separate legal entities.

Can Anyone File For Legal Separation?

While all states within the United States recognize a married couple's right to file for a divorce, not all states allow married couples to file for legal separation. As of 2016, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Maryland, Mississippi, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and Texas do not recognize legal separations. has some resources if you want to verify the the laws in your own state.

What is the Procedure?

The procedure for filing for legal separation is usually the same as filing for divorce. You must prepare a petition telling the court that you wish to be legally separated from your spouse. You must also prepare a summons that will be served on your spouse to notify that you have initiated the legal separation proceedings.

Where to Find the Forms

Forms that can be used to file a legal separation are frequently available online through your state or county court website. Most state courts and many larger county courts now have self-help sections on their websites that contain fill-in-the-blank forms for common proceedings such as legal separations. They may also have a self-help center located in the court office where you can pick up or view sample forms to use in your legal separation case. You may also choose to pay a fee to any of a number of online companies that will provide you with the forms. Additional forms required in your state may vary, however, they will generally be the same requirements as in a divorce proceeding.

Take Care With the Petition

A judge is generally unable to award you anything that you have not asked for in the original petition. Thoroughly research and prepare your petition and make sure you have covered everything that you are asking for in the legal separation. All orders contained in a legal separation agreement or decree are enforceable and any violation of the agreement can be considered contempt of court.

About the Author

Renee Booker has been writing professionally since 2009 and was a practicing attorney for almost 10 years. She has had work published on Gadling, AOL's travel site. Booker holds a Bachelor of Arts in political science from Ohio State University and a Juris Doctorate from Indiana University School of Law.

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