Healthcare Advance Directive
This is a term covering various documents such as a healthcare power of attorney, a healthcare proxy, a living will or a do-not-resuscitate order. What they have in common is that they give you the authority to make medical decisions for your parents, such as authorizing treatments, dismissing doctors or choosing a rehab facility.
Power of Attorney
Your parents can use a power of attorney document to give you the authority to buy and sell property, use their bank account to pay their bills or make decisions for their business. A "springing" power of attorney can be set up so that it only takes effect when your parents are incapacitated.
If your parents know how they want their assets and personal treasures disposed of after death, a will is the simplest way to give those wishes legal weight. Not only should they have a will made out, but you need to know where to find it after their death.
Under the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act, doctors and hospitals cannot divulge your parents' health information to unauthorized people; and even if you are your parents' caregiver, that doesn't mean you're authorized. Make sure you have a legal form spelling out that you have the right to know your parents' medical condition.
In addition to legal authorization, it will help if your parents have all their legal and financial information available where you can find it. That includes bank statements, investment records, car registration, mortgage, records of trusts or legal agreements and other documents you'll need to handle their affairs in an emergency.
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