Arrange a meeting with your spouse to make settlement arrangements if you want to represent yourself in court. This is also called an uncontested divorce.
Choose a grounds for divorce. Virginia is a no-fault state, meaning that if there are no fault grounds, such as adultery or cruelty, a couple can divorce on the grounds of incompatibility.
Make sure you meet residency and separation requirements for Arlington, Virginia. You must have lived in Virginia for six months to file for divorce. If you don't have children, you must have been separated for six months. If you have children, you must have been separated for a year.
Use a generic form to initiate divorce proceedings at the circuit court in Arlington.This is the court that handles divorce cases. The contact information for the circuit court is: 1425 North Courthouse Road Arlington, VA 22201 Phone: (703) 228-7010
Serve your spouse with the divorce petition, known as a complaint. You can do so yourself or have an adult friend do it for you. Virginia allows you to post a divorce complaint on the door of your spouse if he or she doesn't answer. Your spouse has 21 days from being served to answer your complaint. If no response is received, the divorce proceeds.
Attend the hearing scheduled by the clerk of the circuit court. If you have witnesses to corroborate your side of the divorce, bring them with you. After the hearing is concluded, you'll have to wait for the filing process, which normally takes 30 days---however, that time can be significantly longer or shorter. You'll be notified by mail when your case has been filed.
Mail in a final decree form, available on a generic forms site, once you've been notified of the filing to the clerk of the circuit court. Ask that the judge sign the decree, which should be done within a few days. You will then be legally divorced.
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