The rules of civil procedure govern the filing of a motion in a family law case. Although the rules of civil procedure vary slightly from one state to another, the general provisions governing the filing of a motion for family law largely are the same. Before proceeding with a motion in a family law case, familiarize yourself with the basic elements of civil procedure relating to pursuing a motion. By doing so you ensure that your motion is properly brought before the court.
Discuss with the other party or parties the issue you desire to raise in your motion before filing. Family law prefers that parties attempt to negotiate issues before seeking judicial intervention. The judge likely will ask what efforts you made to settle a matter when you file a motion in a family law case.
Obtain a motion form from the clerk of the court. Court clerks maintain standard forms, including motion forms, for use by people not represented by counsel.
Title the motion. For example, if you want to file a motion to change custody, title the document "Motion to Change Custody."
Insert the case caption and case number at the top of the motion.
Include the essential facts and arguments supporting your position. If you are seeking a change of custody, set forth the facts that support your request.
Duplicate at least two copies of the motion, one for the opposing party and one for your records.
File the motion with the clerk of the court by handing the motion to an assistant or deputy clerk at the clerk's office at the courthouse.
Send a copy of the motion to the opposing party. Pursuant to civil procedure rules, the filing of the motion is not completed until a copy is delivered to the other party to the family law case.