Once you visit your attorney's office and file for divorce, you may think the divorce process will quickly be on its way. However, there are a few other steps to complete before your spouse can be served and the process of divorce begins.
You must allow time for your attorney to draw up the papers after filing your divorce petition. Give him at least two weeks to complete the papers before you worry about when your spouse will be served.
Your spouse must receive the papers to be considered served. You may hire a process server to locate her and have her sign a form stating she received the documentation. You can mail her the forms through first class mail and depend on her signing and returning the acknowledgment form. Send the papers through certified mail and her signature alone on the green postal form will suffice. If all other avenues do not work, you can publish your intent to divorce in a newspaper in her area in substitution of service
Any adult not directly related to the case can serve your spouse. The server may be a friend, relative, police officer or hired process server.
You must serve the papers on your spouse within 120 days of filing your petition for divorce.